
The sun streamed in through our front door pane this morning, spreading a rainbow of color across the floor and illuminating one of [t]ae kwon mom's spinning wheels sitting in the corner.
Today [b]iomedical engineer daughter and [f]ine art daughter will be home from college for Thanksgiving. I can hardly wait to see them. I'm very thankful on this Thanksgiving Day 2008. I'm thankful that I and my family are passionate, God-fearing, God-loving people. I'm thankful for my beautiful, wonderful, funny, artistic, exciting wife who is always going non-stop from the time she gets up until the time she goes to bed. For my super intelligent, soccer-playing oldest daughter who is compassionate, loves music, art, travel, life, learning about cultures beyond her own, books and movies. For my super creative, artist daughter who loves being with friends, loves everyone, loves going places, meeting people, painting, drawing, taking pictures, reading.
For my mother-in-law who loves flowers and plants, bargains, cooking and seeing family and friends. For my father-in-law who is so knowledgeable in so many areas like plumbing, electrical and mechanical matters, gardening, and building and whose beautiful woodwork adores our house with bookcases and other pieces of furniture. For my sweet, dear, petite, little 91-year-old mother, who taught me how to be who I am today. Who loves everyone, worries about everyone, would rather give than receive, cooks fantastically [without recipes] and gives the nicest hugs. For my sister who was like having a second mother as I was growing up in the fifties and sixties. Who loves my mother so much that she quit work to stay home and take care of her full-time. Who cares about everyone she sees. Who would give everything she has away to help other people, if she didn't need just a little bit to live on. For my middle brother who has battled cancer for years and won each battle. Who is so kind and warm-hearted. Who has the most precious family. For my brother who survived the savagery of war in Viet Nam and came home as my hero. Who can work miracles with his hands, rebuilding cars and building cars from scratch. For my oldest brother whom I have always looked to as a mentor. Who has such a fantastic sense of humor and a wonderful laugh. Who is always level-headed and thoughtful. For my youngest sister, who always had the sweetest smile as we were growing up. We have lost touch over the years. Her choice, not mine. I miss her tremendously. I wish I could tell her I love her in person. For my three sisters-in-law. Each one unique. Each one fantastic. Each one a sweetheart. For my brother-in-law, the deer hunter and stockcar race enthusiast. For all my nieces, nephews, great nieces and nephews [especially the niece who keeps in touch with me more than anyone else in the entire family... keeps me informed... closes the gap of 500 miles... and... her son, the musician whom I always enjoy talking to and listening to as he plays his music]. For my nephew who was more like a little brother as we were growing up. He and I did everything together. We played in the creek and the woods. Played with our cars under the big pine tree. I chased him down when he broke a window while trying to kill a bee and took off running. I helped stomp out the fire that almost became a forest fire because he wanted to see the leaves burn. Where you saw one you saw the other.
For my dad, who passed away many years ago. He taught me what it means to love and care for family and friends.
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Song 484:
Bad SneakersArtist: Steely Dan
Album: Katy Lied
Year: 1975
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Five names that I can hardly
Stand to hear
Including yours and mine
And one more chimp who isnt here
I can see the ladies talking
How the times are getting hard
And that fearsome excavation
On magnolia boulevard
Chorus:
And Im going insane
And Im laughing at the frozen rain
And Im so alone
Honey when they gonna send me home
Bad sneakers and a pina colada
My friend
Stompin on the avenue
By radio city with a
Transistor and a large
Sum of money to spend
You fellah, you tearin up the street
You wear that white tuxedo
How you gonna beat the heat
Do you take me for a fool
Do you think that I dont see
That ditch out in the valley
That theyre digging just for me